I’m pretty sure a lot of you ladies wish your significant other loved you just a little bit more. Well, a lot of times, men may get distracted by certain things that can affect our love for you or lack of love, but there is always that small population of women that know what they are doing. For those ladies, whose men are very into them, you are doing the things most women just don’t do. If you are reading this post ladies take advantage of what I have to say. First off, ladies, what you have to do is be smart and figure out what are the distractions that are keeping your man from loving you a little bit more. Here are some suggestions that may help you. Thank me later.
Give us our space from time to time. Most of us men (if not all of us), LOVE our space. Space is very very important to us and spending quality time with ourselves is important as well. You have to be able to determine when and when not to hang out with him, we would love if you were missing for a couple of days maybe. The more you understand how much we value our space the better your relationship will be. After getting that much needed space, the next time you guys spend together, is going to be so refreshing rather than him being annoyed at your every action, and counting the minutes when it will be over.
Participate in what he likes to do sometimes. Whether it’s watching NY Giants football game,listening to his favorite music (btw, check out Rey newly designed rap website, reyshizz.com), or even playing video games with him. Whatever it is, join him on one of his favorite activities. Trust me that goes a long way. As much as you might hate what he does, you have to be able to sacrifice sometimes. I’m pretty sure he does it for you all the time!
Don’t try to change us please. Let us be ourselves. This one is really important. Why do women always try to change their boyfriends to somebody they are not? I just don’t get that. You fell in love with him for the way he is. You can’t just tell him what to wear, how to act, or what to buy, it just doesn’t make sense. He still has to be able to keep his own identity and not let you establish a new one for him. Don’t get me wrong, your opinion matters and if an upgrade can be made for him then by all means, but don’t get too crazy with it.
Have to be his own personal cheerleader. As bad as that might sound, it’s true. Who doesn’t like to have someone on the sideline cheering them on? Don’t constantly tell him his flaws. That would make him want to stay away from you. Nobody likes to be around negative energy. Tell him he looks good in those new pair of jeans he just recently bought, even though it looks exactly like all our other pair of jeans he already owns. Tell him what makes him great in your eyes, support his thoughts, and boost his ego up once in a while. This is your time to be creative and spontaneous too.
Buy him nice things. Doesn’t have to be expensive things but nice things that you know he will appreciate. Don’t wait for his Birthday or Christmas to get him something. Buy something because it’s Wednesday and you want to show him how much he means to you. We love surprise gifts, it shows us that not only were you thinking about us but it shows your appreciation for us.
After reading this you should have a better understanding on how you can make him love you more. All of these variables play a major role and by following them you will definitely benefit in the long run. Your relationship might even become a healthy one. So go out and start working on making him love you more, you can even add your own twist to my tips. Oh I can’t forget, you’re very welcome…; )