I might get a lot of heat for this article, but Seriously fellas, we have to do better. We are letting our women run wild. No more respect, no trust, and more importantly NO CONTROL. Just the other day, I read about the Anthony Weiner scandal and I was shocked. It wasn’t because of what he did; it was because of how he was caught. His career as a politician is now in shambles, all because he was being a man and he had no control or trust with the women he dealt with. The fact that the women he was dealing with put him out there like that looks horrible on his part. It’s his job to have his women in “check” especially if he is doing things outside his marriage/relationship. And in this case he definitely didn’t have a tight leash on them.
Now you’re probably wondering what I mean by having his woman/women in “check” or on a tight leash. (Please don’t take that literally) First and foremost, when I say “in check,” I mean be a man, show some dominance. Last I checked we were the dominant species. Women are no longer loyal. They are out to get theirs and that’s it. This is why we have to establish that dominance and control. We have to let them know who is BOSS. And in the Anthony Weiner case, the women were probably offered large amounts of cash in exchange for his pictures; showing he had no trust, no respect and no control over them.
At the end of the day he is at fault for not determining how loyal these women can be in the beginning stages of the relationships. It’s our jobs as men to make sure we have our relationships under control. We have to make sure we gain our respect, gain their trust, and have that leash. You should be able to send whatever you want to her without having to worrying about it hitting the net. What ever you’re sending should be understood that it is for her viewing pleasure only.
In conclusion, we have to do better fellas. If we have our side chicks or whatever you call them, let’s not give them total control of the relationship. Don’t forget that you are in charge. Be confident if you decide to send explicit pictures to her without worrying about it hitting the net. Be smart as well, you will always have those disloyal ones out there too. Think a step ahead. Put that leash on her. You should be in total control, not her.