Are women really the more outgoing one in relationships than men? To answer that question, I would definitely have to say yes they are. It’s not that I don’t always want to go out with you; it’s just in my DNA not too. In order to support my hypothesis, I had to do some research to back it up. Now Of course my research stems from my own personal experiences, but I’m starting to believe that most male species are just less outgoing compared to their female counterparts. For instance, lets focus on the male lion, research shows that the male lion is the less active one compared to the female lion. Male lions can sleep up to 20 hours per day, while the lionesses go out and hunt for food, care for their young, and roam around doing whatever lions do.
So I kind of/sort of did a quick study on the credibility on my hypothesis. I was able to interview 10 different guys (anonymous) who are currently in relationships and have been for at least 6 months. I gave each of them a questionnaire regarding their opinions of going out. My findings weren’t surprising at all. To sum it up in a nutshell, my research suggests that women are a lot more outgoing and spontaneous compared to men.
I want to share and discuss some of the reasons we (anonymous participants and I) believe women are more outgoing. Now some of you may agree or even disagree, but I hope I am able to provide a little insight
Reason 1. Most women are very excited once they become part of a committed relationship (not saying men are not excited). Their main goal is to spend as much time as they can and that usually includes a lot of going out. Whether its dinner, movies, shows, traveling, or parties; again their priority is to be with you sharing all of THEIR “exciting moments”
Reason 2. Women are usually hard to entertain. Unlike us men, it doesn’t usually take much to get us excited. We can kick back, grab a beer and watch television (preferably Sportscenter for me) 24/7 and be cool with that. Women on the other hand want to see mountains and fireworks even in November. So it’s pretty much our duty as men to keep them excited before they get “bored”.
Reason 3. We like to think women are more extroverted and men are more introverted. With that being said, women who tend to be more social, need to be out looking for the crowd and doing things. Men are more to themselves and because of that, we don’t really need to be out there with the crowd.
At the end of the day, I’m happy women are the way they are, it balances us men out. I have women to thank for most of the exciting things I’ve done throughout my life. I know more than half of the time you probably don’t want to do what they want to do, but if you balance it out I’m sure you will enjoy it and make the best of it. It’s not all that bad…
Definitely a debatable topic…