I’m always telling the ladies how to be better/more attractive to both prospects looking to bag and boyfriends losing interest. It’s time that I reveal some of my secrets to help the fellas out there be better in relationships. Guys I know you don’t want to hear this. I know you already know EVERYTHING there is to know about women. I assumed that to be true for a long time. But I’ve been talking to my lady friends and apparently this is not the case. You guys need some help. The following are some tips to help you be more desirable to your current girlfriend and women in general.
#1 Pay for Everything
If you’re one of those guys who argue, “Women want equal rights, why can’t they equally pay for dinner.” then I’m talking to you. It is the man’s role to be the provider. Your woman should feel taken care of when she’s around you at all times. “Paying for everything” means offering to pay for everything because you can (or should be able to). This shows her that you are capable of being the provider for the both of you. Offer to pay for everything that you two share together whether it be a meal or weekend getaway. Some women may not let you pay for everything and that’s a good sign. This means you have a independent woman on your hands. You probably won’t come out of your pockets all the time but the ratio should be somewhere around 75/25.
#2 Work Out
You have to keep yourself in shape to remain desirable to your lady. She may say that it doesn’t matter and she’s probably right. Just like having a sundae without whipped cream doesn’t matter but with it, the sundae is a lot more appealing. Having a body that she can brag about to her friends is better than not.
#3 Birthdays and Holidays are Important
DON’T EVER FORGET THEM! And get an awesome gift. For guidance on gift giving read 3 Tips to Gift Giving.
#4 Small Random Gifts Are the Best
Unexpected gifts have more impact than expected ones. It shows that you are thinking about them more than what is expected. It doesn’t have to be big or expensive, just something that says you care and that you listen to her. Getting that message across is important.
#5 Give Her Space
You do not need to ask 21 questions every time she goes out with friends. Being overprotective or jealous is a sure sign of insecurity in yourself. If you are naturally a jealous person, hide it. If you think she’s cheating or something like that, she probably is. Your best move is to move on. But I guarantee if you follow the tips above, she won’t be going anywhere, anytime soon.