Women, when dating, we must be aware that there are 2 different types of men. In order to know in what direction your dating relationship is headed, one must find out in what kind of relationship you are getting into. The type of relationship you are getting into is determined by what kind of man you are dating. Choosing the right type of man to date is important in order get what you want from the relationship. Watch for these traits in each type of guy:
The ‘Serious’ Boyfriend
Saying: After getting to know you, this type of guy makes it known that you are the woman he wants to marry. Men are very different from women. When men find what they are looking for, they have no desire to keep looking for another potential. Once he realizes that he has found his future wife in you, he will go forward without hesitation. Usually when talking about marriage, this type of guy is positive, confident and will put it in the woman’s hands to decide when she is ready.
Doing: This type of guy engages in meaningful activities with his girl like visiting her family, spending time with her, accompanies her to church, spends holidays with her and tries to integrate himself into her family. He is usually around his girl just because.
History: This type of guy may be associated with 1 or 2 girlfriends that he has brought around friends and family. Regarding girlfriends, he is meticulous and selective about who he brings around and associates himself with. TRY being the lucky girl he introduces to his circle…
The ‘Not-so serious’ boyfriend/Womanizer.
This is the kind of guy that will waste your time if you are looking to get married and have kids. This is a realistic problem as we all know that women have a biological clock. After 35 years of age, the risk of having an unhealthy baby increases, and the risk becomes greater every year after that.
Saying: The relationships this type of guy usually engages in have “Blurred Lines.” There is no clear understanding what you mean to him and what kind of future he has with you. He is just in it for the moment and for a good time. If you talk about marriage while in a relationship with him, it will most likely end in an argument. He will feel pressured and uncomfortable discussing marriage. He may also refer to his wife in a third person, making it known that he isn’t sure it will be YOU.
Doing: As I stated, this guy is in it for a good time, therefore the only time you will see him is during a planned activity. This guy has no genuine interest in just being by your side. This type of guy may keep you happy momentarily because he knows how to please women, for the short time he wants to keep them, through cute outings, activities, and sex. During serious times of need, this guy is usually not emotionally engaged.
History: This type of guy can be associated with a long list of several different women including: Real Ex, side chick, fling, “friend with benefits” and one night stand, which he brings around his friends and family all the same .There is no real distinction between girls. He usually refers to his girls as his “friends,” to keep them around. Just wait your turn, you WILL be next…
Depending on what you want from a relationship, chose your type of guy. If you are looking for marriage and children, maybe your priority interest in a man shouldn’t be fancy restaurants and theme parks; you should probably be looking for a guy who also wants to get married and shares your same values. But if you are looking for a quick romance and a good time, maybe the womanizer type is suitable for you. Be aware of what you are getting into with a guy. Understand the difference between the two types of guys and judge a guy by his actions more than his words.
Be blessed, spread love,